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... until we have children."
I've always laughed when I've seen this in various parenting articles or brought up in casual conversation. And we all have this grandiose idea that we will have perfect children that won't need discipline and will not speak until spoken to, wash their hands after going to the bathroom, pick up their room before continuing throughout their day, never back talk and all those lovely made for T.V. Leave it to Beaver moments.... but the honest to goodness fact is, what the heck were those kids drugged with? 
Reese is definitely still a gentle soul, doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings for the most part and really a caring disposition. I love that about her.... though she's started to exert her own sense of self and control, mostly over Riley, which we are curbing as best to our ability...
However, her newest things to do are if she's getting in trouble for touching something she shouldn't or being too rough we tell her she's going to have to put it down or we're taking it away.... and her knee jerk response is "No! I'm going to hide it!" and then if Scott or I do have to take something away it's "You aren't my friends anymore guys" as she goes and pouts in the corner.
99% of the time I do ignore it because it's just her 3 year old way trying to express her deepest sense of hurt that she feels has been forced upon her, but sometimes it's too easy to respond with "That's ok, I don't want to be your friend either because the way you are acting isn't how friends would act towards each other." And I know she really can't comprehend that, but what's the right response.... ignore her, or tell her to stop, put her in time out???
The nice thing is that after these little outbursts of hers she usually will come to me, give me a hug and say "Mommy, I'm sorry, I love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck." and we're "friends again."
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